Yea thats what i was thinking island man, cheers. I know It helped me.
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Ps sorry about the title of this thread...i accidentally hit enter too soon lol
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Well this past week has been a roller coaster of emotions. I have seen in person the cognitive dissonance my wife faces. So now its time to rebuild, break down what needs to be changed, and start anew. But first, where to begin?
I have two ideas i think...either i will Start printing topics off of JWfacts and doing study and research with my wife.
Or going over Steve Hassans techniques to recognize cults. My object isnt to shock and awe but to hopefully give my wife a smooth transition.
so i have some decisions to make. If it were you, what would you do? :-)
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by Jon Preston inwell my wife asked me loint blank..."do you wanna be a witness anymore?
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we then went into 1914 and shunning and 1975 and she said sheswondered many times about it.. anyways she said "so what do we do now?
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Update: well today we have decided that until we are out of our house and move we will continue a slow fade. My wife told me that if i was so strong in these feelings to DA but the. We thought of repruccusions should i take that road. She still wants to believe but admits its mostly because she was raised this way. Shes willng to go over and research material that may oppose the opinion of the Org. I think this is cognitive dissonance at work because shes holding on. So we will continue our "family study" but it will be material ive found on sites like JWfacts and such. Soon she may read Rays book and perhaps ill present her with Captives of a concept. And of course we will read the bible without Goggles. Thanks for all the posts and hell! More to come.
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by Jon Preston inwell my wife asked me loint blank..."do you wanna be a witness anymore?
" and i told her no.. .
we then went into 1914 and shunning and 1975 and she said sheswondered many times about it.. anyways she said "so what do we do now?
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Thanks everyone!!! Im still in disbelief and we are still trying to figure out what to do....the house we rent has witness owners and many people are tryng to contact us so its crazy
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I hav to ask....whats next
by Jon Preston inhi all!!
im insanely excited and absoluteky flooeed with my wifes reacton to my honesty on the wt....shes worried about returning to who she eas, wanting to do drugs and drink and be anparty-er....so i ask many in my situation......whats next?!?!
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Right! Cool!
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by Jon Preston inwell my wife asked me loint blank..."do you wanna be a witness anymore?
" and i told her no.. .
we then went into 1914 and shunning and 1975 and she said sheswondered many times about it.. anyways she said "so what do we do now?
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I will def point her here...i do worry what she will think of what ive said but/..
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Progess!
by Jon Preston inwell my wife asked me loint blank..."do you wanna be a witness anymore?
" and i told her no.. .
we then went into 1914 and shunning and 1975 and she said sheswondered many times about it.. anyways she said "so what do we do now?
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Hinestky i NEVER expected.....for real...she totally blond sided me....she had her own reservations her whole life and didnt tell me
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I hav to ask....whats next
by Jon Preston inhi all!!
im insanely excited and absoluteky flooeed with my wifes reacton to my honesty on the wt....shes worried about returning to who she eas, wanting to do drugs and drink and be anparty-er....so i ask many in my situation......whats next?!?!
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Jon Preston
Hi all!! Im insanely excited and absoluteky flooeed with my wifes reacton to my honesty on the WT....shes worried about returning to who she eas, wanting to do drugs and drink and be anparty-er....so i ask many in my situation......whats next?!?!)!